
IN 2025, Intelligence is open-mindedness.
We tend to think of intelligence as something fixed—a score, a sharpness, a gift. But in 2025, that idea is starting to shift. More and more, intelligence is being defined not by what you know, but by how open you are to not knowing.
Open-mindedness. The ability to re-think, to unlearn, to change perspective. Research suggests this kind of flexibility might be the most important marker of real-world intelligence today.
This post explores how our cultural and psychological understanding of intelligence is evolving—and why humility, curiosity, and the willingness to be wrong might just be the signs of a truly intelligent mind.

You Want something from them— but you want it to come from *them*.
Do you wait for your partner to bring up commitment because asking feels too risky? This post explores the real reason we stay silent in early relationships—and how to break the pattern.

When a Dance School Decides You’re Not Enough

Beginner’s Mind: How I Started Meditating and Never Stopped.
From Aperol to Existential Dread: The Psychology of the Post-Holiday Slump
Why Is It So Hard to Practice What I Know Is Good for Me?
Why am I inclined not to practice? Not to be disciplined, not to eat healthy, to abuse or neglect my body, to stay inside…?

The nature of suffering and what it means to be human

Who will I be in 2025? (A journaling exercise)
A journaling exercise - who do I want to be in 2025? How does she look? How does she feel? What are her practices? How does she treat people? Ten questions to set you on track for the vibe you want this year.

My life with A.D.D.
My life with, history of, and thoughts on Attention Deficit Disorder.